Discipline Children and Stop Misbehaviour

When your child is exhibiting behaviours that are not desirable, addressing only the behaviours themselves will leave you frustrated because the behaviours don‘t change, or grow into even worse behaviours.

By honestly and objectively addressing the root causes of the misbehaviour, by gaining perspective on your child‘s emotional, mental and physiological needs, and by learning the skills and habits, you will be able to develop an entirely new relationship with your child.

If you put a Band-aid on a festering wound without first cleaning the wound, the wound will soon erupt into a full infection. Likewise, the major reason that most parenting systems don‘t work is because they focus on SYMPTOMS of your child‘s problem, but don‘t address the ROOT CAUSE.

Another point to note is - whether you like it or not, your children will inherit both the best parts of yourself and the worst. And this knowledge is what inspired thousands of parents before you to take the time and apply the effort to improve themselves – so that their children, like yours, can inherit more of the ―good and less of the ―not-so-good parts.

The approach we believe in is to help parents resolve their child‘s underlying feelings by understanding the root cause of challenging behaviour and addressing the child‘s internal and external needs. It‘s really about maintaining a connection to your child so that you‘re aware of why he is exhibiting challenging behaviour.

What you can learn is how to really understand a child‘s developmental needs; physically, mentally and emotionally. Once you understand this, then you will be able to unlock the real secret of child behaviour. Part of this secret is to first understand that a child‘s behaviour is a response to a genuine need.

The other thing to keep in mind is that the even though these challenging behaviours often show up a little later, they are often caused earlier on. Often behaviours that you won‘t see at six months or a year old, you will see at two years old or four years old. You need the skills now, so the underlying issues that cause these behaviours won‘t accumulate and result in challenging behaviour later.

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7 Parenting Skills

Looking around today, we can safely say that the majority of parents practice an ―Authoritarian or Punitive style of parenting.

What we‘ve also discovered is that those parents who don‘t apply Authoritarian parenting will often tend to be overly permissive in their parenting. Then, when their child is out of control due to this permissiveness, the parent feels exacerbated and often will lash out with harshness in order to reel their unruly child in. Like a pendulum swing, the parent goes from Permissive parenting to Authoritarian parenting.

Once a mainstay, Authoritarian and Permissive approaches have become outdated, unworkable and no longer practical or healthy, according to the latest research and results.

7 parenting skills to help your child stay connected, allow their natural intelligence to flourish, and support a warm, enjoyable family environment:

1. Understanding the 3 Reasons for Challenging  Behaviour – ask yourself why is your child acting this way?   

2. Non-Reaction – Stop reacting and start responding. Connect to your child‘s state of being and respond to his deeper needs instead of reacting to his behaviour.

3. Natural Giggles – Laughter and giggles are great medicine and create a bond with your child. Find opportunities in your day that allow your child to giggle and laugh.

4. Listening Time – Schedule regular time with your child during which you fully listen to him and let him direct the play for a pre-specified period of time.

5. Connective Communication – Talk to your child using kind and gentle words in a considerate, loving and respectful tone of voice.

6. Limit Setting – Set kind but firm limits to help your child feel supported enough to express his true feelings.  Just saying ‘No’ is not always a good idea.

7. Adult-to-Adult Listening Time – Schedule regular time with a friend or support to have your own feelings listened to.  Take time for your own emotional needs.

Keep in mind, all of these skills take time to truly learn and fully integrate into your parenting. The more you use them, the more you‘ll learn from them and integrate them in a skilled fashion.

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5 Facts You MUST Understand if You Are Ever Going to Stop Your Child's Defiance,Tantrums and Out-Of-Control Misbehavior

1.  Many so-called "discipline methods" are actually cleverly disguised forms of punishments and rewards that can cause your child to suffer the lifelong consequences of having a lower sense of self-confidence... yet the parenting marketing industry continues to lie to you so they can maximize their profits by selling you watered-down versions of lashing kids with belts.


2.  Disciplining methods such as rewards, consequences, and manipulation are actually the LEAST effective method of getting your child to listen and cooperate. We'll explore what types of methods REALLY work in a minute.


3.  Sitting your child down for a painful "talking to" or forcing your child to take "responsibility" are NOT the best way to stop misbehavior and unleash the genius inside your child... I'll tell you the exact types of unique child discipline that produce 10x better results below.


4.  You DON'T need to waste your money on expensive child psychiatrists or doctors who push expensive pharmaceutical drugs to help control your child's behavior. These drugs can have serious consequences and they never address the real problem that causes the misbehavior.  I'll show you how to use the power of child brain science in more detail below.

5.  The shocking fact is that common parenting methods and tactics of today just don't work! Because if these methods did work, children wouldn't misbehave like they do.  And as you're probably aware of by now... Your child's behavior is not going to magically disappear on it's own!  In fact, it's only going to get worse with time (that's why teenage drug problems are such an issue now).  Again, you'll learn some of the secrets of parenting well-behaved and smart kids and what really works below.

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